The Paradox of “Good” Friday

I’ve thought often about today in history, and of our reference to the Friday before Easter as being Good Friday, and of how in a very significant way, it was anything but good. Not all parts of the world speak as we do. According to Wikipedia this Friday is described in various ways.

No matter which word we choose, the word proves to be a paradox.

Good Friday, you say? How could such a day have been good?

“And he (Judas) came to Jesus…and kissed him.”

“Then did they spit in his face, and buffeted him; and others smote him with the palms of their hands.”

“Then began he (Peter) to curse and to swear, saying, I know not the man. And immediately the cock crew…And Peter remembered the word of Jesus, which said unto him, Before the cock crow, thou shalt deny me thrice. And he went out, and wept bitterly.”

Great Friday, you say? How could such a day have been great?

“And being in an agony he prayed more earnestly; and his sweat was as it were great drops of blood falling down to the ground.”

“And they all forsook him and fled.”

Holy Friday, you say? How could such a day have been holy?

“And when they had blindfolded him, they struck him on the face…”

“Then Pilate therefore took Jesus, and scourged him…”

“And the soldiers platted a crown of thorns, and put it on his head…”

More to truth do these countries speak:

Day of Christ’s Suffering

“And he bearing his cross went forth into a place called the place of a skull, which is called in the Hebrew Golgotha where they crucified him…”

Sad Friday

“Now there stood by the cross of Jesus his mother, Mary…”

Long Friday

“And after this Joseph of Arimathaea, being a disciple of Jesus, but secretly for fear of the Jews…came therefore and took the body of Jesus.”

And yet, I fully understand Good and Holy and Great. For on that memorable Friday, salvation for all mankind was wrought.

“And it was about the sixth hour, and there was a darkness over all the earth until the ninth hour. And the sun was darkened, and the veil of the temple was rent in the midst.

“Jesus said, ‘It is finished.'”


My other blog is here.


    About Shirley Buxton

    Still full of life and ready to be on the move, Shirley at 78 years old feels blessed to have lots of energy and to be full of optimism. She has been married to Jerry for 60 years. They have 4 children, 12 grandchildren and 11 great-grandchildren...all beautiful and highly intelligent--of course. :)
    This entry was posted in Bible, Christianity, Devotionals, Disciples, God, Jesus, Love of God, Luke, Mark, Matthew, Mercy, Passion, Peter, Prayer, religion, Word of God and tagged , , , , . Bookmark the permalink.

    7 Responses to The Paradox of “Good” Friday

    1. Rebecca Juarez says:

      Yes, Sis. Buxton, without the seemingly paradoxical “Good Friday,” God’s plan of salvation would not be available to all.

    2. helenl says:

      It is good that “it is finished.” Salvation is ours. Thank you, Jesus.

    3. Loys says:

      Shirley: I’ve posted a link to your site re: this post. Before coming to the mission field I pretty much accepted the teaching of my denomination and the Christian holidays as part of our faith and heritage. I sat under great teaching of Bro. John at Houston’s First Baptist Church for twenty years and saw him rightly dividing the word of truth. But once on the field I needed to look closer to my beliefs and especially God’s word to examine what is essencial. Because as questions came my way I wanted my answers to be truth and bold as Paul would say. In this process I’ve learned to question different things so on Friday the thought of Good crossed my mind and I had been praying asking for a better revelation and look you’ve given such a thorough answer. Thanks. God the Father willed, God the Son fullfilled and God the Spirit sealed, to the praise of His glorious grace (Eph 1).

    4. Kevin Hopper says:

      Shirley, what an awesome thought that you have brought to us today!

      Sometimes it is hard for humanity to grasp the real pain and suffering that Jesus went through for our sins. But I am so glad that He did!

      God robed himself in flesh and came and died for our sins. Then he rose again that we might have life more abundantly.

    5. marlajayne says:

      Despite the everlasting good that resulted from the events of this day, I still see the term as paradoxical. I’m appreciative of your post, especially in view of the fact that many see Good Friday as a day off, a time when they can begin Easter celebrations by traveling, buying Easter clothing, or taking advantage of sales.

    6. paulynramirez says:

      “For on that memorable Friday, salvation for all mankind was wrought.”… so beautifully said, Shirley! Let me share with you a little movie clip that moved me into tears….

    7. Shirley says:

      Remarkable love has God given. Bless all of you.

    Leave a Reply

    Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

    You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

    Google+ photo

    You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out /  Change )

    Twitter picture

    You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

    Facebook photo

    You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )


    Connecting to %s